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                 Hi! I'm BluC. Some of the biggest influences in my life are my mother and my girlfriend. Everything i do is to be better for them i want to take care of them and be a provider. Myself as well, but everybody wants to be better for themselves right? Iv kinda been like a butterfly, flittering threw life kinda just living for the next new experience and living in excess. If one is good ten is better. I was going to teach in another country, but right before that my mother got sick so i stayed and started to take a good hard look at what i was doing with my life.
               I decided i couldn't be everywhere and random anymore(im still random). I needed to stay put go to school and get a "big people job" so that my ailing mother could retire sooner then later. I thought about what i liked to do in life. Bartending, talking to people and being social. This of course doesn't pay and has horrible health care...and at the end all we have is our health. So, i thought about it again. Iv always been into nutrition, exercise training and natural ways to heal your body. People need pushing to work out, and I'm a cheerleader and always tell people they can do the best in whatever they want to do and I'm in there corner and ill help. So i decided I'm going to go into nutrition, personal training. Iv worked at gyms and it is awesome to see people reach there goals and have less aches and pains from their lifestyle change. 
             My friends dad doesn't have diabetes anymore because he juiced, he use to take alot of medicine not anymore though. Some sociological imagination events that have shaped my life are when i left my friend Julie high and dry for new years.
It was new years and it was about six of us including Julie and she wanted to go 
to a straight place and party but we wanted to go to a gay place. I said to my

friends let's go to the gay party and We will meet her at her party.  We went and 
then it started to be late 11...11:30...12 Julie's calling us and texting us and 
I'm pretty much spearheading things, and saying don't pick up and we are all not 
picking up her phone calls. 

              Finally one friend does pick up and she is crying, she leaves me a message and she's crying and bawling and how could we do this to her she is all alone. I feel horrible and I say okay let's head to     this club, of course we get there so late she's gone and she doesn't speak to us for a 
while. I text her these excuses but that's all they are excuses. Stepping back I 
see i was insensitive, dismissive, inconsiderate and cruel. I didn't think if someone 
did this to me id be upset. I became a better friend/person from then on because I 
never again did that and I never again would make my friend/or anybody feel 
horrible for something that I did.    

               Now if I say I'm going to do something I do it and if I can't, I tell them up front and I don't      string them along or lie to them. All you have is your name and if you do something to Tarnish it all     you have is a bad name, but if you uphold your word and yourself then you'll have a great name and   way of being that people will standby.